Why am I still single? If you are repeatedly asking this question to yourself, maybe it is time to stop finding mistakes in others. Introspection is a healthy manner to improve yourself. Canada is a place with awesome mountain-top-view, plush restaurants, nice people – everything smells of love. So, if you are single in Canada, you are definitely doing something wrong. A list has been created, find yours in it!
1. You Cannot Trust Easily
It is important to know that trust does not come easy for many people. Thus, they end the relationship by saying “I am not right for you”. These people are afraid that someday their partner will break their trust. You always end up having short relationships or one-night stands.
What to do: There are many people who are going through the same problem. Just remember that everyone is not the same. Once you come of your shell of fear, you will see that people are nice and trustworthy too.
2. You Are Still With Your Ex (In Your Mind)
Your ex had a great impact on your heart and mind. So now the hardest thing is to move on. You probably want him back and do not want him at the same time. Moreover, you are afraid someone else will break you apart just like your ex.
What to do: Your ex was not the right match for you and there is no doubt about it. Take your time and remember that there are people out there who will care about you.
3. You Are Too Picky
At some point, it is good to be picky because there are certain things you cannot handle. But human beings are difficult to judge and you tend to do that on your first date. Just by looking at the person’s clothing, manners – you have the result ready in your mind.
What to do: Give some time to your partner. Don’t be so quick to judge. People who look like studs might actually be warm and nice.
4. You Cannot See Anyone Below Your Ego
Yes, you heard it right! Your ego is the main problem. The ego has an immense effect on interpersonal relationships. You consider yourself on the mountain top while everyone else is on the plains. This is good in some cases, for example, when those who do not deserve you want to be with you. But the right person also gets pushed away in the crowd.
What to do: You should know where and with whom to use your self-esteem. Sometimes, it is good to break the wall of ego and enjoy the humble world. You must remain humble at heart. Not saying yes the moment they ask you out is not considered as ego. There are many more reasons which have not been mentioned here. If you identify your problem, you are on the right path. Of course, it is better to be single than be in a bad relationship. But being in a relationship has its own perks and it can bring joy and happiness at the end of the day.